It is November, the thankful month. It is the month we all strive to think of others a little more, count our blessings and work to let our family and friends know how much they mean to us. However, why do we only do this in November? Why not do it year 'round? I know it is something I am trying to do; be grateful daily.
Why do I do my level best to try to stay positive and thankful? The following quote by Helen Keller sums it up best:
|"Keep your face to the sun and you will never see the shadows."- Helen Keller|
When you have a good attitude and are always looking on the bright side, things don't look so bad or feel so dull or glum or hopeless. You can smile sincerely and enjoy life fully. Physical pain dulls, heartaches lessen, and life and God are truly good. It is the better side of the coin, the glass half full, the rose colored glasses, and it is wonderful.
It is not easy, and there are the days where you must be practical or realistic and see that there is truly hurt in your heart and in your world or in the world of someone else you know, but when you are being thankful, that hurt is a little less because you see every good thing as a gift. You don't live as if you deserve good things, so when they come, you appreciate them and they touch you deeper, guarding your heart a little bit more like a shield so that when the sword of hurt, anger and disappointment comes it doesn't wound you as deeply. Sure, you still hurt, you still grieve, but you have your blessings, your gifts, still and you know that (eventually) you will be ok.
I wish that I had the time to do what I did last year and do a thankfulness link-up every day in November until Thanksgiving, but I do not. I am hoping to blog weekly about thankfulness, but (as you can see in my lack of being able to blog since October 16th, despite my best efforts) I cannot promise you that. What I would ask of you, though, dear blogger friend, is that you strive to find ways to express gratitude, not only this month (though that's an amazing start) but every day of the year. Keep a Thankfulness Journal, start a Thankfulness Tree or Thankfulness Wall or make a Thankfulness Box and work alongside me in trying to keep a spirit of thankfulness in your (our) homes, hearts, and lives. I know that my goal this coming week (today, hopefully) is to make a Thankfulness Wall/Tree and add to it throughout the month and share it with you as I can. I am hoping to have a designated spot that will be used year 'round that I can decorate according to season, but we'll see how much time I get. :) That's the goal, anyway.
I hope you all have had an amazing start to your November. May it be an amazing one for you and may you learn to love more, feel blessed more and know that I am praying for you!